Frequently Asked Questions

Tantra is a magnificent and very ancient spiritual path that originated thousands of years ago in Asia. 

It’s a path of non duality, which means that everything has the same sacred essence. That includes every part of you.

Tantra is deeply rooted in meditation. If it’s not meditation, it’s not Tantra. It’s that simple!

Tantric practices are wonderfully diverse and include silent and active meditations, breathwork, energy work, shadow work, embodiment, movement, pleasure practices, massages, rituals, pujas, worship, psychodramas, journaling, etc...

Tantric tools are stunningly efficient, whether you’re a beginner or an advanced practitioner

Tantra is a path to finding your own essence, your inner truth. It feels like coming home to who you always were.

As you weave this sacred connection with yourself, you’ll also drastically transform your relationships with others and with the divine, in whichever form is meaningful to you.

Tantra is a magnificent and extremely vast body of knowledge. Only a very small part of it addresses sexuality. 

So you can practice Tantra without ever working with sexuality if that is your preference. Most people have actually done that for hundreds of years.

However, what Tantra has to teach around sexuality is earth shattering. It is superb, ancient yet ground breaking, and oh so needed in our modern society. 

And it’s the only place where you’ll find it. It’s not in scientific research - not yet, not in the medical world, not in magazines, God knows it’s not in porn, and it’s not even in conscious sexuality.

Whether you are into Tantra for better sex, sacred intimacy or enlightenment, I guarantee you’ll find it.

I’ve trained with Ma Ananda Sarita for many years and became a certified Tantra Teacher under her mentorship. I cherish her deep transmission of Tantra, and it’s my honor and privilege to share it now with students of my own.

I’m a VITA certified Love, Sex and Relationship coach, and a VITA certified Tantric Sexuality Coach. Layla Martin’s influence on my work is paramount and I’m very committed to her cutting edge, inclusive, trauma informed yet deeply spiritual approach.

I also trained 2 years with the beautiful Shakti Malan on the Divine Feminine, the Divine Masculine and the Sacred Union Within.

Finally, I absolutely adore Daniel Odier’s sublime approach to Tantra, and Margot Anand’s fabulous Skydancing school.

I provide online coaching sessions and in person workshops, during which, amongst other things, I teach you and guide you through Tantric practices and meditations.

There is no sexual activity or full nudity during my sessions and workshops. 

I can guide you or teach you intimate, pleasure, sensual, sexual practices. We can work with sexual energy. Partial nudity can be offered.

I usually do not practice with my students or clients, and never engage physically or romantically with them. 

I do not provide any sexual services or in person body work.

Creating a sacred and safe space for my clients and participants is paramount to me and fundamental for their experience.

A space space if first confidential. 

In my coaching sessions, that means protecting my clients data and my notes on our sessions, keeping absolute confidentiality regarding who works with me and how, and of course about the content of our sessions.

In my workshops, it means no phones, no pictures, no videos without prior consent, not discussing outside of the event who was present, who experienced what or what happened overall. Participants can share their own experience and feelings of course, but nothing involving others. Everyone commits to creating confidentiality for themselves and others.

A safe space is a conscious space. That means no alcohol and no drugs, and the intention to be fully present in the present moment, and to be fully yourself. For workshops it also involves being conscious about other people’s experience in the common space. Your totality and the quality of your presence will condition the results you get. 

I aim to create spaces of full acceptance. Everyone, including yourself, if fully welcome, fully accepted as they are. Every part of you is welcomed, respected and cherished. I invite you to refrain from commenting on yourself or others, judging, criticizing. Instead you’re encouraged to witness any judgment coming to you and sit with it, observe it, learn from it from a place of love and compassion, and release it if possible.

In my spaces you have full agency. You’re in charge of your experience and can follow any invitation or not, and you can change your mind at any time. You can stop for a glass of water, take a moment, ask for a modified version of the practice, ask for support or provide support for yourself. 

Whether you’re working alone or with yourself, everything will always be by invitation. I work with an ongoing invitation to feel into your boundaries and explore freedom and alignment with yourself. I also guide you to have conversations and work with boundaries when you’re with a partner or with a group. 

First we focus on getting a whole lot of clarity around your goals and desires, to map the landscape we’re working with, and make sure that the results you get will actually have the impact you most deeply want.

Then we can work with a variety of tools engaging your rational brain, your belief systems, your usual behaviors. They can look like questioning, setting intentions, awareness practices, working with memories, letting go of conditioning, building up new beliefs systems that serve you better, setting up new habits, personal research on very specific topics.

And we’ll also use methods addressing your primal brain, unconscious, body, emotions. They can be breathwork, inner child work, embodiment practices, meditations, pleasure practices, shadow work, rituals, sex magic, etc. 

I teach you and guide you through these practices very carefully. In my spaces, everything is always by invitation and we work on feeling and voicing your consent and what feels aligned for you in every moment in each session. 

There is no sexual activity or full nudity during my sessions and workshops. 

If we’re working on better sexuality or sacred sexuality, I’ll guide you through the practice on a more energetic level during the session so you have a deep feeling and understanding of it. Then you’ll do the full practice with the level of intimacy that feels right for you privately, on your own or with your partner. And we’ll have an in depth integration together during the following session.

My coaching sessions last between 1h and 1h30. I work with my clients for a minimum of 3 months, usually 6 months. We have a session every other week together. I offer different types of practices for you to work on on your own in between. We have a quick check in in between if you have any question, difficulties, or anything special you’d like to share.

If you have a very pressing topic, we can also have sessions every week.

Sessions and workshops are to be paid in full in advance. For coaching programs I offer payment plans with no interest fee. I do not offer refunds.