The Gesture Before the Touch
What You Were Never Taught About Tantric Massage
Touch is born from a gesture.
It’s created from how we feel with ourselves, and with another body.
This weekend is an invitation to explore that space.
To question what we think we know about touch, presence, desire, and care,
To discover what truly makes tantric massage a sacred and deeply transformative practice.
Workshop Details
The Gesture before the Touch
Date: Saturday March 14th 10am-10pm, Sunday March 15th 10am - 6pm
Location: The Practice - Holland Park
Investment: £175 Early Bird - £210 Full Price
Open to: all genders, individuals, couples, and friends
This immersion includes a weekend transformative immersion in a stunning central London space, with organic teas, delicious snacks, and all materials provided.
The group is limited to 14 participants.
Discover the Benefits
What Happens in this Workshop?
Many tantric massage workshops focus on technique, sequence, and "the right way of touching". Yet often, something is missing, and you wonder what.
Open a Magical Portal
Discover the alchemical field opened by consciousness and equanimity
Presence & Safety
We work gently, slowly, in the present moment, with awareness. Before all, Tantra is meditation.
Explore Joyfully
What moves us to touch, how it makes us feel, how it touches us in return.
Deconstruct and Let Go
Of everything you thought you knew about touch in a massage, in the bedroom, in your life.
Feel Held and Honoured
We're not fixing or pushing. We just notice and let our truth emerge and be acknowledged.
We have Your Back
You're held by clear boundaries, explicit consent, careful pacing, and constant facilitation.
Workshop Content
The Inner Landscape of Touch
You will be guided through a powerful yet accessible journey that combines:
• Tantric and somatic practices to slow down, deepen presence, and bring awareness and meditation in the body and into touch
• Touch exploration and play with a space to witness our patterns, expectations, desires, and joy. We become the observer and let acceptance and love arise.
This weekend intentionally invites a safe chaos to open up to what is present as opposed to what is expected.
From there, we can discover and experiment our inner and outer landscape of touch.
Going Deeper
Touch as a Field of Consciousness
We create a very subtle and gentle space where everything is by invitation. We support you to feel what is aligned for you in each moment. This is not a space for consumption or sensation-seeking.
We invite you to practice with different partners, different genders, different bodies, different souls. It helps remove familiar dynamics around attraction, flirtation, and projection. And it allows us to meet the body — our own and others’ — beyond habit, fantasy, or role.
You can join with a partner or a friend, and decide to practice only together if you wish.
You don’t need any prior experience in Tantra or Massage to participate, we’ll be with you every step of the way. For our advanced practitioners, this weekend helps to deepen your practice and unlock limitations that you may have reached.
Your Facilitators
Spiritual Guides on the Tantric Path
Our workshops are led by a team of experienced and passionate instructors dedicated to guiding you on your Tantra journey.
Sandrine Bettinelli
Tantra Teacher & Sacred Intimacy Coach
Sandrine bridges the worlds of science and spirituality, blending ancient Tantric teachings with modern neuroscience and personal development. Her approach integrates the mind, emotions, and body to create spaces where transformation feels both profound and safe.
After 20 years in high-tech leadership, she now dedicates her work to guiding people toward deep embodiment, ecstatic bliss, and self-realisation. Passionate about making Tantra accessible to modern, high-achieving lives, she teaches with a balance of clarity, depth, and grace.
Sandrine is the co-founder of London Tantra and the Corfu Tantra Festival, a certified Tantra Essence Teacher, and a VITA-certified coach in Love, Sex, and Relationship.
"Sandrine really is truly incredible at transformation, enlightenment, embodiment and Tantra. I am truly so grateful for the divine connection with her. I am so lucky to have found her!"
- Dr. Olly Alexander, MD, PhD
"Sandrine Bettinelli is a masterful coach and teacher of Tantra. Sandrine's transmission is like warm honey, sweet and deeply medicinal."
- Amber Eros, Erotik Shadow Worker
Bruno Deck-Aimé
Tantra Masseur & Tantra Massage Teacher
Bruno has spent much of his life exploring the body as a place of memory, meaning, and consciousness. After thirty years working as an architect, he chose to focus fully on the relationship between body and awareness.
For him, the body is not something to correct or improve. It’s a living archive — shaped by time, experience, and relationship. His approach to touch is slow, attentive, and deeply respectful. Less about doing something to the body, and more about listening to what is already there.
With over 20 years of experience, Bruno teaches internationally, practices as a tantric masseur, and is the co-founder of the tantric massage school Tantrâmour.
"This massage is a singular and precious experience that I hold in the jewel box of my heart. I feel that a new path has opened. I carry the imprint of those sacred lines, and the renewed joy of being alive. Infinite thanks for this moment of grace."
Christelle
"Thank you. I have never felt such purity in a moment of connection. We didn't have to talk, simply feel each other, touch with the pads of our fingers, hold one another, caress… as if our bodies were responding only to instinct, something obvious and natural. Your sensitivity is extraordinary and deeply moving."
Clement
Who Can Attend
Seekers of Sacred Connection
Everybody is welcome at our workshops, you can come alone, with partners or friends. Whether you're a beginner or an advanced practitioner, our workshops will take you to your next step.
Workshop Format
Immerse Yourself in Interactive Tantra Experiences
Experience interactive workshops blending meditations, breathwork, conscious touch, movement, rituals and group discussions. You can always choose to practice alone, with your partner only, or engage with others.
Consent and Boundaries
A Sacred Space of Respect and Choice
Expect radical acceptance, safety, confidentiality, and loving care. Our rules: no drugs, alcohol, phones, comments, judgments. We guide you to be the sovereign of your experience, in a supportive and trauma informed space.
Invest in Your Transformation
Book Your Ticket to an Aligned Life
The investment for our Tantra workshop starts at
175 GBP per person
Our workshops usually sell out, so act now to ensure your place in this transformative journey.
I want to joinWho is it for?
This is Where you Belong
The people who come to our spaces are talented, accomplished, sensitive, and deeply curious. They are thinkers, creators, and seekers.
Whether you’re new or an advanced practitioner in Tantra or Massage, you’ll find a refined, supportive and trauma informed space to support and cherish you.
This is where you manifest the relationships and the tribe you always longed for.
Do you have any questions? Feel free to reach out to [email protected]
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Embark on a Journey of Deep Connection and Growth
Are you ready to embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery, intimacy, and personal growth? Join our Tantra workshops in London and experience the profound benefits of this ancient practice. Book your spot today and take the first step towards a life of alignment, bliss, and authentic connection.
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